Being your dog’s voice in public can feel uncomfortable at first, especially if you have a reactive or nervous dog. But advocating for your dog isn’t just about avoiding uncomfortable interactions; it’s an essential part of building trust, supporting their progress, and creating a more positive experience for both of you.

Whether you're deep into reactive dog training, working with a nervous rescue, or navigating puppy training in busy areas, this guide will help you speak up confidently, kindly, and effectively.

Why Advocating for Your Dog Matters

Many dogs (especially reactive or nervous ones) find unpredictable public environments overwhelming. From off-lead greetings in parks to well-meaning strangers reaching out for a stroke, even seemingly minor interactions can push a dog over threshold. According to the IAABC Journal, protecting a dog from stressful interactions helps prevent fear-based behaviours and builds long-term emotional resilience.

By advocating for your dog, you're:

Helping them feel safe and understood
Reducing the likelihood of reactive behaviour
Supporting their training and recovery journey
Showing others how to respect canine boundaries

Know What Your Dog Needs

The first step is being clear about what your dog can and can’t handle. If your dog struggles with:

People approaching
Other dogs getting too close
Busy or noisy environments
Sudden movements or sounds

Then they might benefit from extra space, routine, and consistent boundaries.

Keep a journal or use a behaviour tracker app to note patterns and identify triggers.

Use Clear, Friendly Body Language

You can say a lot without speaking. If you spot a potential issue approaching:

Step between your dog and the distraction
Turn your body slightly to block or redirect
Use your hand in a gentle “stop” signal
Keep your lead short but relaxed

This lets others know your dog needs space and gives your dog the confidence that you’re in control.

Have a Go-To Phrase Ready

You don’t need a rehearsed speech - just a friendly, clear sentence you can say when needed:

“She’s in training, please give us space.”
“He’s nervous with other dogs, thank you for understanding.”
“We’re working on focus around people, could you give us a bit of room?”

Practice saying it out loud, so it feels natural.

Use Gear That Supports Your Message

Consider using:

A lead sleeve or bandana that says "Do Not Pet" or "In Training"
High-visibility vests or jackets for your dog

This non-verbal communication can make all the difference, especially during reactive dog training when your dog is learning neutrality.

Prepare for the Unexpected

Even the best-laid training plans can be disrupted. Know your exit strategies:

Cross the road early
Turn and walk back the way you came
Step into a driveway or side path to create space

Give your dog something to focus on, like a known behaviour such as “heel” or a charged marker word you can use to redirect into reward or another activity.

Learn more about how to use marker words in training here.

Confidence Grows With Practice

Feeling awkward is normal at first. But with every successful interaction where you stood up for your dog, your confidence will grow. You’re not being rude - you’re advocating. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.

And remember: you are your dog’s best advocate. They can’t tell the jogger to slow down, or the stranger not to touch them. But you can.

Advocating for your dog in public is one of the most important skills you can develop. It doesn’t just make walks more manageable - it strengthens your relationship and helps your dog feel truly supported.

So next time you find yourself needing to speak up, remember: you're not just managing behaviour. You're showing your dog they can trust you, no matter what.

Looking for Support?

At ASCENDK9, we work with owners who want to build trust, focus, and calm behaviour in real-life settings. Whether you're tackling reactivity, building confidence with a nervous dog, or laying solid foundations with your puppy, you're not alone.

Explore our 1:1 lessons, virtual coaching, or group classes to learn practical skills and strategies that work in the real world.

How to Advocate for Your Dog in Public - Without Feeling Awkward